Where Did My Money Go?


Have you ever reached the end of the month and asked yourself where all your money went as you scramble to pay your rent or mortgage?  You know you’ve been working hard, you know your paychecks were deposited or the cash was in your hand and in your pocket when you were paid.  So where did it go, and why does the same thing seem to happen every month?

Sounds like you could use a budget.

 

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“A Budget is simply telling your money where to go instead of wondering where it went.”
– John Maxwell

It’s Easier Than You Think…

The real problem with budgeting is that is rarely given sufficient priority.  Think about it.  You go to a job to work mostly because you need to eat and pay rent and perhaps be able to go out for coffee or a drink with friends (hopefully you enjoy it on it’s own as well – but that’s a topic for another post).

What if you couldn’t do any of these things without first putting together a budget?  Or, what if that special someone you were just dying to go out with required you to have a working budget in place before going on a date?

I think a lot more of us would be doing budgets.  It’s definitely easier than some of the effort we put in to get all the things listed above.

Budgets require basically the following information:

  1. Income
  2. Expenses

Told you it was easy.  Furthermore, YOU are the one who has the most control over each of these categories.  You can learn more, work hard, gain experience and thus increase your ability to earn income.  You can watch what you buy, put limits on your wants, and prioritize saving to decrease your expenses.

Once you have these two amounts totaled up, subtract your expenses from your income.  The goal is to hit Zero – where every dollar you make is given a purpose, or “spent on paper,” every month before you bring it home.

If you came up with a negative amount, you may need to decrease your expenses in the short term and work to increase your income in the long term.  Use an envelope system with cash to help limit spending on food or entertainment, for instance, or cut back on amenities like cable and underused or unnecessary phone or other services.  You can always get them back when you begin earning more.

If you came up with a positive amount, you need to tell this surplus money where to go.  Preferably this would go towards outstanding debt, an emergency fund, or if both of those things are taken care of, to savings for purchases, investments or retirement.  If you don’t do this up front, you’ll be wondering where it went at the end of the month.

…But It Takes Time

A quick Google search will tell you that the time to learn a new habit is about 3 weeks.  Budgets are generally done monthly, so it may take about 3 months to become a habit since repetition is a key factor in learning.  There are numerous resources on the web for help on the details of doing a budget, and I highly recommend the resources on Dave Ramsey’s website.  I’ve included a few specific links below to get you started.

“You will either learn to manage money or the lack of it will always manage you.”
-Dave Ramsey

Pericles Quote

“What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments but what is woven into the lives of others.”

-Pericles

How does your attitude towards your work and your finances relate to this?  Are you seeking an engraved stone monument (that will gather moss and erode) or are you weaving into the lives of others to leave a legacy of influence that can change the world?

Giving & Tithing

Would you tell your landlord, utility company or mortgage lender that you’re only going to pay them if you have something left over in your budget?  Or would you tell your family that they only get to eat if there is something left over?

Of course you wouldn’t (I hope!).  But this is exactly what we tend to do when it comes to giving or tithing.

Giving and/or tithing (which means one-tenth) is an important part of any financial plan.  The problem is we tend to do it as an afterthought, with whatever might be left over.  The problem of doing it this way is that it robs us of any blessings that come from giving purposefully.

The prophet Malachi wrote the following to the Israelites while they were in exile and had not been giving a tithe to the Lord:

Will man rob God? Yet you are robbing me. But you say, ‘How have we robbed you?’ In your tithes and contributions.  You are cursed with a curse, for you are robbing me, the whole nation of you.  Bring the full tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. And thereby put me to the test, says the Lord of hosts, if I will not open the windows of heaven for you and pour down for you a blessing until there is no more need. I will rebuke the devourer for you, so that it will not destroy the fruits of your soil, and your vine in the field shall not fail to bear, says the Lord of hosts.  Then all nations will call you blessed, for you will be a land of delight, says the Lord of hosts.  Malachi 3:8-12

 

God tells us that purposeful giving or tithing will bring blessing!  In fact he says if we do this he will rebuke the devourer for us!  If we faithfully return to God a portion of what he has given us to manage,  He will bless us so that our needs are met as well as protect us from those who would steal from us.

Do I Have to Do a Tenth?

For now, the important thing is to start. With any amount.  What matters is that whatever you give, you give it willingly and joyfully and with thanksgiving.

Give whatever you decide is appropriate for you (praying about it doesn’t hurt, either!) and just start putting aside that amount to give every month as part of your monthly budget.   If it’s $10 or one tenth isn’t as important as the change you will feel in your heart and in your attitude towards the income you earn as a result of giving intentionally.

In time I encourage you to incrementally increase your giving at scheduled intervals, and test and see if God doesn’t provide what you need in order to do so.

 

Giving Up Your Credit Card

Could you give up your credit card(s)?  How hard would it be for you to do?

If you had to give it up to save a relationship or a job, could you do it?

Imagine for a moment that all your credit cards have just been stolen.  Did you just feel a moment of panic or loss?

What is this bond between us and our credit cards?  Could it be that the borrower is slave (in bondage) to the lender as Proverbs 22:7 suggests?  Proverbs 6:1-5 suggests that when we find ourselves in the position of borrower, we should not sleep until we have “saved ourselves like the gazelle from the hand of the hunter…”

Now try a quick experiment with me:  Compare the length of time you had your oldest credit card to the length of time of your longest dating relationship (including marriage), or the length of consecutive time spent working for the same employer.

For Example:

  • My longest held credit card:  18 years  (cancelled in 2010)
  • My longest dating relationship:  4 months (give or take a month)
  • My longest time with same employer:  17 years

I had the same credit card longer than any dating relationship (by far), and longer even than my longest time with the same employer!

To be honest with you, even though I willingly and readily cancelled and cut up all my credit cards in 2010, I still felt a slight pang of loss when I actually cut them up.  Ridiculous, right?  Wouldn’t happen to you.  Right?  Okay, tough guy, cut them up…c’mon, what’s taking so long?  Cat got your scissors?  Yeah, not so easy, is it?

I have hosted 7 Financial Peace University classes since 2010, and the most difficult part of every class has been the call to cut up credit cards.  It is amazing the lengths to which we will go to defend our need to keep at least one credit card, especially the one that is “only for emergencies,” or the one that “gives us mileage points.”   It’s hard, even though we know at least 3 new credit card offers will come in the mail this week.

I know I can’t make you give up your credit card, but before you dismiss the idea entirely, I highly recommend watching the documentary Maxed Out for more exposure to the darker side of the credit card industry.

I dare you to give up, and cut up, a credit card right now.  Don’t worry, they will send you offers for new ones, even if you’re dead (seriously – watch Maxed Out).

Proverbs 13:11-12

11 Wealth gained by dishonesty will be diminished, But he who gathers by labor will increase.

12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick, But when the desire comes, it is a tree of life.

New King James Version (NKJV)

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